Adventures of Chari and Lynsey

There are people that leave a lasting impression on your life, whether good or bad. Both types teach you something valuable, and it’s up to you to do something with those lessons.

One of my oldest friends, Chari, recently came home for a visit, and it has been like we never were apart. Sometimes I’m afraid of her passion and zest for life, only because I am so cautious in most aspects of my own. When she speaks, she pauses before each thought, making sure that her words are collected, impactful and meaningful. I think that is an attribute worth having, because unlike Chari, I always speak without thinking, without pausing and most times I regret the outcome.

After a day spent hiking with her in Manoa Valley, and eating delicious healthy food in Kaimuki, my mind was filled to the brim with ideas, theories and conversations that we had traded. How could one soul be packed with so many thoughts and feelings? It must be exhausting. Still, it also is inspiring. She is inspiring. Her desire to make a difference, know more about the world and the people that occupy it — and not just on a micro level, but really know a person — make me feel like I’m not doing enough. And, I think that’s a good thing. You need people to make you feel like you could be better, because if you don’t, you’ll always be stagnant, the same.

I am friends with Chari H. because she challenges me, she makes me think/feel outside of my comfort zone and pushes me to see myself how I’ve never dared to before. I want to be that person for someone else, too. I’d like to be the one that gets people excited about life. I hope to urge those around me to be something more. But, I think that starts with being fearless with myself and less frugal with my own life first. 

I’m ready for my next adventure.